Well I just finished step 4 and went over it with my sponsor and it feels great to have it done. Step 5 is going over it with my sponsor and my bishop. I haven’t talk about it with my bishop but I will have it done this week. I can’t wait. I have been working on 6 and 7 and it has flown by. Right now I’m on 8 and 9. These steps will take a little longer. I can’t belief that I’m on day 64.
I have been reading some blogs that have to do with addiction that I’m going through. Some that stood out to me where. This daughter of a addict found porn on her dad’s computer. She said that she felt betrayed and could not believe that her father viewed that. I made me think about my addiction. When I was into my addiction I believe that it couldn’t harm anyone beside me. As I do the 12 step program, I have noticed how big this addiction is. Every week I notice how big this addiction is. Before I started this program I will try and over come this, but I would fail. Now I can see why I couldn’t do it on my own. It’s like having a huge bolder in front of me and trying to move it by myself. I needed the Lord to help me and a sponsor. I can’t really explain how much a sponsor has helped me. I’m grateful for his time and his willingness to help me fight this. After awhile I notice that it really damages my wife and my kids. I would tell my daughter that she needs to be modest and respect her body. How can I tell my daughter this when I was viewing pornography? I was being a hypocrite. Now I’m realizing what I was doing to my family. I feel guilty, because I can see how I hurt my family. I would do anything to not hurt them again. My relationship with my wife is getting better every week. I know that in time she will be able to trust me again. I have to be patient with her as she goes through this.